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No. My sight is completely fucked up though. Don't care. Why spending a fuckton of money to buy classes if I don't plan to live long enough to make use of them?

>>6533 >classes Maybe you need them

>>6535

I'm not but my vision has gotten pretty bad recently so I might actually need them eventually. Not to mention that my family has a history of bad vision and many of them do wear glasses.

need them, cant really read signs on the street without them but thats rarely an issue so i only wear them for reading and work at home

>>6532 i've been wearing glasses since i was 6 months old. i don't necessarily wish i didn't have to wear glasses, but i do wish they weren't as thick. i am decently attractive normally but my glasses make my eyes big.

>>6544 Still sad you can't get a girlfriend?

>>6547 i have a girlfriend.

>>6548 Traitor

>>6549 ごめんなさい

>>6550 There is no point ever using imageboards when you have life

>>6551 it's nice to take a step back from life and be anonymous. i am a recovered suicidal NEET. regardless, we shouldn't derail the thread hikarin.

>>6552 Can't derail a slow chan >recovered Do you understand you now have to explain how? Hikarins want to kiss too

>>6553 well... it's not like i can just give you a cheat code on how to get a girlfriend. women are complex just like men are, so they look for different things. my personal experience may not work for you guys but i can try to give advice. step one for me was getting my own life in order. got a job, got a car, my own place, started working out, put effort into my hygiene and appearance, generally just being more responsible and functional. next i'd say to remember that you'll struggle to find a gf if you don't ever talk to women. cold-calling and dating apps i find are really shit unless you're a 9/10 norman, but putting yourself in environments where you'll see the same women is best i think. this can be your job, school/college, clubs, extracurricular classes, etc. somewhere you'll be able to consistently interact with women on casual terms in order to build rapport with them. from there i guess it's a matter of finding someone you hit it off with? relationships- including friendships- can't be forced so try not to come off as desperate and test the waters until you naturally hit it off with someone. i've noticed that women tend to be entranced by people they find fun or entertaining. y'know the stereotype about fat ugly guys getting hot gfs because they're funny? that's not entirely untrue. so even if you lack self-confidence, remember that you don't need to be a 10/10 lookmaxxing Classical marble statue with an 8in pp and 500k in the bank to find someone who loves you for who you are. my current gf is someone i've been friends with for a long time so i can't give you much there but i've gotten previous relationships and friendships with the mindset above. honestly relationships are complicated so much of this comes down to your own introspection from your own personal experience. good luck hikarin!

Gosh that's a lot of trouble

Poor me forgot to use fortune

>>6555 i suppose that's true, but ultimately it's worth it. at least to me. life is better when you have others to share it with! as with all things worthwhile, you'll have to put forth your fair share of effort and keep hoping for the best. part of my journey in finding a gf was the experience of improving upon and discovering myself, finding my worth, and learning about other people. this is something i continue doing to this day and brings benefits outside of just having a gf. in other words, the journey can be just as fulfilling as the end result!

Glad for you hikarin

Imagine putting on glasses and seeing why you're alone what a mistake

>>6557 sounds like a humiliation ritual tbqh KV4life

>>6561 which part? the TLDR for what i said was "talk to women and have a good time with them".

I'm in a very similar spot. I've had glasses since I was 4, and I don't think I'm someone who can touch their eyes, so no contacts. I'm so used to it now that I don't really worry much, but it's be cool if I didn't need them. (If I lose them I have to skip work though, VERY blind)

>>6593 Having a good time is fairly complex when you don't feel good

>>6596 that is true. you can't fake having a good time. whatever may be troubling you, i pray you find peace. and i do mean that.

I've always been a 4eyes and am into megane. Unfortunately glasses are expensive.