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What's your happy place? rusberry 07/19/2024 (Fri) 02:52:46 No. 5630
It doesn't have to be a physical place but anywhere where you feel safe and content. It can be anything from site on the internet or your backyard. I am trying to find mine. Life has taken its toll on me. Unsupportive family and isolation has left me just wanting some kind of meaning. Somewhere I can relax and just pass my time. Thanks in advance
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Nowhere. It doesn't matter where I go there's always a grain of hostility between me and everyone else. Even here on hikari. On hikari! My comfy place would be small and without people. Why no people is obvious, and small so that there isn't enough space to imagine ghosts. Yes I sometimes suffer from nightmares, if I just imagine that there's someone behind the door while I'm psychologically down it's over for me. Ideally it'd be just one small room, where everything is visible from any spot. And autonomous light just in case I feel uneasy.
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hmm... i guess it would be in the woods. cozied up alone by the fire at dusk. no signs of humanity- no cars or planes in the distance. here i feel at peace. it's as if i am not even an entity in itself, simply a dissociated observer woven into the world around me. quiet summer fields in the afternoon also give me this feeling, particularly fields of flower or grass. nothing but the wind blowing against me to prove i'm even there. gives me a feeling of interconnectedness i have not felt anywhere in civilization. if not there, then it would be cozy quiet evenings wrapped up with someone i love. although it's been too long since i've experienced this.
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Anywhere when it's under a tree, I love the sound of rustling leaves
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ever since i was a kid i will say "i want to go home" over and over to myself when im distressed and want to feel safe, but home was never safe so i don't know what i mean.
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>>5799 same as you, my go to stressless place is my home
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>>5630 I am not sure now. I guess as a child it was 2009-2016 youtube. Also playing my DS helped me feel safe despite the rough childhood that I had. As an adult, I cling desperately to the MVs that I watch, but that time has already passed. It's not the 2000s anymore. My own family brought me to my lowest point less than 2 years ago, and I can't exactly exist in a digital landscape like this.


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