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Sometimes I start thinking about how my family would react if I suddenly died. When I imagine their sad faces I start to tear up a bit.

>>6381 i think about my friend who committed suicide a lot. it's been almost 7 years at this point but i still miss him like crazy. he was my best friend. so my last cry was probably over him. >>6383 i used to do this a lot when i was suicidal haha. i've experienced enough death to know there are probably lots of people who would be sad if you passed hikarin. glad you're here with us.

I honestly can't really think of a time I full on cried off the top of my head. The most significant time I can remember was when my dad passed away about 6 years ago. It wasn't the last time I did but it's the one I remember actually feeling really sad. >>6385 I'm so sorry you went through that. I hope you and his friends and family are all doing fine currently..

don't remember. was very close to it when my pet died. besides that, i only really get upset when something bad happens to me and even though there were many by-hair-thin-thread moments, it never came down to crying. it's not manly, you shouldn't cry if you can help it.

The last time I cried? When I read this thread

>>6385 >there are probably lots of people who would be sad if you passed hikarin Sadness over someone's passing away is foolishness. Rather mourn your utter inability to be useful and help, if you are so inclined to be unhappy. But if you are not, a death must be inconsequential for your mental health. Otherwise you're doomed.

Couple months ago because if i killed a family member that disrespected me the others would have swarmed me so I felt kind of powerless, paying to kill is not even available because they would know, i am now mildly annoyed because its whatever

>>6390 They can't read thoughts. No bully!

When I was a kid. I don't really remember exactly the last time. Sometimes I get really sad, but tears won't come out at all.

>>6389 nigga shut the hell up. this steaming dogshit post doesn't even warrant an articulated response. mourning over loss is completely normal and healthy. go watch more sigma YouTube videos or do your homework.

>>6393 >mourning over loss is completely normal and healthy In truth this is not and inability to deal with it with such spontaneous emotions in a truly healthy way is what leads you to ultimately harmful decisions and habits. You got so agitated over simple statement of rationality that you called me nigger just to make yourself feel better. You need to reflect on your own actions and realize that circumstances are inconsequential. Emotional attachments must be handled exclusively in an appreciative and respectful way and if you can't wrap you head around the idea you should indeed do your homework.

>>6402 so many words just to say you have yet to graduate highschool. fella read the Meditations and now types garbage like this.

>>6402 There's a time to feel happy, there's a time to be sad, we are humans with a soul that are capable of having feelings. If you think that being stoic is being absolutely emotionless, you have no idea of it at all. By the way, the thing that men can't cry come from women, the same women that rejects us, fuck their rules.

>>6403 Cry louder I can't hear you here. >>6404 On the account of emotions you handicap your ability to be human. You are affected by the Stockholm syndrome. In the same way as many people justify their bullies, as paradoxical as it sounds, you too justify being carried away by emotion on the account of your inability to withstand them. Instead of choosing to mature yourself and become less easy to be wavered by emotions, you admit your defeat and keep subjecting yourself more and more, until you ultimately end up sad and unhappy. And then you keep saying that it's normal to be sad and unhappy, that it's human nature to be depressed. You are the weaver of your own misery, indeed. >stoic >women By bringing up women, did you want to say that you are incel and in all your actions you are guided by reflections on women? And you even choose whether to be happy or unhappy based on women's actions and opinions. You are truly miserable if they affect and own you so much even despite your evident desire to not be controlled by them. See how it turns out, you say >fuck their rules and keep dancing on their strings.

>>6406 >blah blah blah incel blah blah normgroid get yourself a more original insult thank you

on monday i felt a wave of emotions overcome me overnight and i couldnt control it so i kept on crying

>>6409 Phew, lame

>>6402 Appealing to rationality is pointless because how are you going to rationally dictate what is an appropriate way for a human to act if you’re not appealing to sentiment? You cannot even have a system of ethical logic without factoring emotions in.

>>6419 Indeed rationality is a joke. Being an easily manipulated asshole is the way to go.

>>6420 >feeling emotions (normal and healthy human trait) is being an "easily manipulated asshole" you can't be real lol. did you get bullied for "not being manly enough" or something and this is your deal with it? so stupid lol. the reality is you're the asshole and somehow don't see it. go outside.

>>6421 >totally not butthurt This isn't going anywhere, give up

>>6381 The last time I cried was when I was choked by my father at 18 after he discovered I was trans online It was just an experiment because I was confused about my gender. I only did it for a week, and it always felt wrong when people referred to me as a woman during that week

>>6430 Being fake e-girl is fun, you can even meet other fake e-girls sometimes. I'm sorry your father was so impulsive about it.

>>6420 Emotional people being easily manipulated whereas rational people are not is not a fair characterization. You can use cold, calculated reasoning to justify all sorts of tragedies and immoral treatment (especially utilitarian thinking). But an emotional person would have a metric for resisting manipulation because they have the phenomenal capacity to reject mistreatment via their sentiments. My point wasn’t even that rationality itself is wrong. It isn’t - it’s important to be rational and have a critical judgement in an era of misinformation. However, emotions precede rationality especially in moral judgements and there is no way to rationally say what is right or wrong without appealing to the phenomenal experiences of people.

>>6435 You know in modern times brave, strong men do not fight with swords atop horses for the glory of their nations, they instead get jailed after assaulting random psychopaths who thought it funny to abuse their righteousness. You must be aware at all times.

>>6436 >You know in modern times brave, strong men do not fight with swords atop horses for the glory of their nations has it ever been the case? the joke about valiant knights has always been a joke sadly. i don't say there weren't good men, but their relative amount wasn't much higher, if higher at all, than now.