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Need more details. Abusive how?

>>6124 Bit my left shoulder while sexo and ordered me to do the same, i rushed to the hospital and went ghost, she then proceeded to harrass all of my family members she could discover through insta and keyed my bike A lot of other shit has happened the past 15 months we have been on and off, considering seppuku for putting up with it

>>6134 She bit that hard you had to go to the hospital? She just seems off mentally or very low IQ. I don't think leaving her will get you out of the situation so easily. What else about her, does she one moment think of you as an angel and the next think you're literally Satan? Does she self harm? Is she impulsive? Does she kick animals? Does she have an intense desire for sex a lot? Does she ever apologize in a way she seems legitimately upset or does it seem insincere?

1. no drugs 2. no "sexo" with strangers 3. boost iq why do i have to explain

Who is this semen demon?

>>6154 Get a hold of yourself, let not Evil dominate your soul!

>>6111 >>6134 I've dealt with abusive people before and let them hurt me in a lot of ways. I hated and was disgusted with myself for letting them do all that they did to me, and still am a bit. I felt a lot of anger during this time. I think when you're with these kinds of people you learn to shut down, but even after I left I found that their hold still remained. Instead of saying to myself I shouldn't react and should just not think about it, I let myself be angry about it even if it was for whole days. Their hold world of pain they made in my head shook down and collapsed. It was thanks to this I found that I was beginning to let it all go without realizing it. I'm still not completely numb thinking about it, some of that pain remains, but I'm able to keep moving on. People should be treated with love, not malice.

>>6153 Because it helps to understand her actions from a bigger picture. I was trying to determine if she has BPD, is autistic, low IQ, or sociopathic. If you understood why she did some of these things it will either make you want to forgive her or see she's unempathetic and stupid and not worth it so maybe you should just ask her and see if she seems legitimately sorry or not. This of course could be bad news if she's a sociopath and you get drawn in more instead but statistically that isn't the most likely reason. She sounds autistic and a bit stupid in certain matters. Youd have to fade her out of her life by giving her the "gray rock" technique. You need to make yourself as boring and unresponsive to her bullshit as a gray rock, it's a technique for dealing with psychopaths and sometimes people with BPD by making yourself uninteresting to them and not a source of enjoyment.